My Questions & Answers

• How did having children affect your happiness?

  • I agree with poster 1Kimmy. Motherhood definitely makes you stronger and resilient. I think Motherhood also makes you look at life thru different lenses.

• Who does more of the housework in your home?

  We split chores evenly.

  • I think agreeing on "division of labor" is huge in every household. It's helped my husband and I big time - no more bickering about chores

• How much do you spend on holiday gifts?

  Less than $500

  • We get gifts for the kids but we don't go crazy. And if we do a gift exchange with our exctended family we set a price limit.

• Do you snoop on your child's phone or Facebook page?

  Yes. It's my right as a parent to know what my kid is up to.

  • My mother "snooped" and I'd have to guess I inherited the gene. I think social pressures and media make growing up tougher than ever, especially for girls. As much as I'd like to give my children the benefit of the doubt - I'm the adult and need to look after their best interest.

• Should couples have joint or separate bank accounts?

  Both. Couples should have a joint bank account for joint expenses, but it's important to have separate accounts for personal spending.

  • I think it's a personal preference and depends on the couple. It works great great for my husband and I.

• Was mother of Columbine killer partly responsible for massacre?

  I'm not sure. Who could predict that tragedy?